Article 2: Are you in a Relationship with a Borderline? [NEW]

Do you find yourself concealing what you think because you're afraid of the other person's reaction or because it just isn't worth the fight or hurt feelings that will follow? Are you blamed or criticized for everything wrong in the relationship-even when it makes no logical sense? Are you the focus of rages and alternating periods when the other person acts perfectly normal and very loving?

Read two checklists from Randi Kreger (co-author of Stop Walking on Eggshells) and one borderline's description of theiir own character.

"I loved them all deeply at first. I then came to despise them, but I wanted them to love me.

I am an exceptionally impulsive individual. If I want to do or say something, I typically do or say it without any regard for the consequences. If I have something on my mind...."

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