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- EDITORIAL POLICY: The editorial content on this site is selected by the editorial committee with the objective of providing relevance and clinical reliability. The state-of-the-art for personality disorders is rapidly evolving. The editorial committee is committed to keep the educational material consistent with mainstream professional thinking and rooted in practicality. The editorial committee is also committed to avoid and debunk common myths. Member input is actively solicited in the form of readership critiques, polls, and workshops. Recommendations to the staff are encouraged.
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