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The Narcissistic / Borderline Couple

A Psychoanalytic Perspective On Marital Treatment

Joan Lachkar, PhD

by Joan Lachkar, PhD

Summary: Joan Lachkar, Ph.D, defines the narcissistic/borderline couple as "individuals who, when they are together, form a shared couple myth that gives rise to many collective fantasies". Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcissistic partners form a parasitic bond characterized by their painful, circular patterns of behavior. This book examines the complexities of these relationships.

Book Description

This volume explores how Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcissistic partners form a parasitic bond and play out a drama of earlier conflictual experiences, characterized by their painful, circular patterns of behavior. The complexities of these relationships and the potential obstacles to effective intervention are also examined. "Follies-a-deux", madness-in-twosome, afflicts many couples when both partners are personality disordered. "Defining the narcissistic/borderline couple as "individuals who, when they are together, form a shared couple myth that gives rise to many collective fantasies," Lachkar explicates the network that underlies this type of relationship and demonstrates how two theoretical constructs--self psychology and object relations--can be integrated to create an effective conjoint treatment of marital pathology".

About the Author

Joan Lachkar, Ph.D., is a licensed Marriage and Family therapist in private practice in California, who teaches psychoanalysis and is the author of The Many Faces of Abuse: Treating the Emotional Abuse of High -Functioning Women and numerous publications on marital and political conflict. She is an affiliate member of the Southern California Psychoanalytic Institute, an adjunct professor at Mount Saint Mary's College, a psychohistorian, is on the editorial board of the Journal of Emotional Abuse

# Hardcover: 242 pages
# Publisher: Brunner/Mazel; 1 edition (February 1, 1992)
# Language: English
# ISBN-10: 0876306342
# ISBN-13: 978-0876306345
~$40 US



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Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy
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Borderline Personality Disorder: Meeting the Challenges to Successful Treatment
The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder
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DBT with Suicidal Adolescents
Get Me Out of Here: My Recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder


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